Gruffham

"Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future."

Emily mentioned Gruffham used to be military and was a firned of his dad from their army days.

Has a son named Dominic.

Trivia
ETARC doesn't have a club license, mostly because it's a lot of liability for whoever's name is actually on the thing. And as far as I know, Gruffham and the other guy made up and the other "radio club" disbanded, probably in early 2016. Really you've just come across evidence of a very old and very overblown quarrel amongst hams"
 * The quote in his profile is from John F. Kennedy.
 * Has a Netscape Email address according to Emily.
 * Does not like tech, (from forum) - "I'll ask at our next club meeting but it won't be for a while, Miriam is going on vacation and Paul is as well (though I think Mimi will be back sooner), and Gruff hates the forum (he's sent me no fewer than three emails about it)."
 * Has been running the club for a long time according to Emily, "Oh, man, this is actually a kind of funny (and embarrassing!) story. So back in what must have been 2015, looking at the licenses for this "club", there was a bit of a dispute between Gruffham and another guy who actually doesn't live in Edison any more, I don't think. Gruffham's run ETARC single-handedly for as long as I've been aware, and it's been the only radio club in Edison for longer than that-- but this argument resulted the other guy trying to start a competing club or something! I'll admit, Gruffham can be a little... rough around the edges, but it was a total overreaction and really just petty childish garbage. So he registered a callsign under his club name (which is one word off from ours ).
 * Really does not like tech/interacting according to Emily when asked about getting Guffman to post more, "I'll see if I can hassle him into it. He's not a big fan of them to start with, and now that we've got a lot of... "newcomers", you could say, he's even less keen!"